A friend wanted to borrow “The Princess Bride” movie from me so last night I opened the DVD, ahem, excuse me…Blu-Ray cabinet to begin looking for it. (Paul bought this movie a few months ago and we watched it but I wasn’t even sure if it was a Blu-Ray or a clearly inferior DVD that had been relegated to his closet with the other inferior movies.) It had been a long day and honestly I wasn’t looking that hard for it so I asked “Honey, where is ‘The Princess Bride’ movie?” His response warmed my heart to its very core, “It’s in there baby, they’re all in alphabetical order.” I slowly turned around and smiled at him over my shoulder, “How have I been married to you for almost 7 months and never known that you alphabetize our movies?!?!” He just grinned for a moment unsure if I was making fun or genuinely impressed with this trait. My heart smiled because this is 100% something that I would have done on my own, but would never ask anyone else to follow. And for almost 7 months, my husband has never mentioned this to me but undoubtedly gone behind me and fixed the movies when I have haphazardly put them back in the cabinet in whatever order they land. I’m not the only one who has compulsive ways of doing things!! How on earth did I find this man?!?! Really? Thank you Jesus!!
Then this morning as we were getting ready for work, Paul was ironing his shirt (so very attractive to have your man iron his own clothes) and we were discussing some of the Pampered Chef glass containers in which I had packed the various portions of his lunch. In true Paul fashion, he cracked a joke about the name Pampered Chef without missing a beat. As he went to put away the ironing board, I compulsively noticed that the legs were not “locked” into place appropriately so I said “Honey, honey wait! If you do it like this then the legs will be locked and stay in place.” He very graciously took my reprimand and simply replied “Ok, Monica.” At first I smiled but I could not stop from pointing a finger back, recalling the cheesy, yet comedic Chandler-esque display only moments prior. He sweetly kissed my forehead and we both laughed.
Perhaps a boring morning and interaction by Hollywood’s standards but what an absolutely PERFECT example of how the Lord perfectly matches us to one another. More than that…He matches us with our perfect mate and if we are willing to listen, gives us an appreciation for all the little quirks that make them who they are. And trust me, no one but Jesus could have made someone who could so patiently and gracefully deal with me day in and day out. But then again, no one but Jesus could have created a man who is more attractive to me simply because he alphabetizes our movies! No one, but our sweet, wonderful Savior! Thank you Lord for loving us enough to deal with all our craziness and creating another human who gets it, embraces it and loves us more because of it!
Friday, October 1, 2010
Vultures
Driving home the other day, I stumbled across vultures devouring some unidentifiable lunch. I often see them circling above fields and pastures as I drive to work and run errands; I know the circling is their way of signaling one another and stalling to see if there is any movement from, hopefully, their next meal. I have never really paid much attention to vultures before but I have also not often driven 3 feet away from them while they enjoy a meal on the small shoulder of a 2 lane highway. As I looked back in my rear-view mirror, none of them had even flinched. Though this is a small highway, cars are flying past at 55 mph yet these vultures are so consumed with the meal in front of them that their imminent danger didn't cause the slightest reaction.
See, vultures devour the dead and are not scared off by passersby. They focus on taking what they want from the dead and bank on the fact that no one is going to come verify that the life is gone from the dead.
How often do I look at non-believing friends, family and strangers and think "they're hopeless, nothing can help them now." Satan's vultures have them ensnared in something that I think is too big and simply unfixable! But if I believe that Luke 1:37 (With God, nothing shall be impossible.) then WHAT AM I DOING?!?! Simply because someone looks dead, looks like they don't have the Lord, looks like they are so deep in sin that they can't get out--does this mean the Lord can't give them the same LIFE he gave to me!?!?
I was watching the Today Show recently and they told the story of Jamie Ogg who, along with his twin sister Emily, were delivered at 27 weeks. Doctors told his parents that he was dead and presented the baby to mom to say goodbye. She placed the baby on her bare chest and despite noticeable movements, the doctor continued to tell them this was reflex and part of the "process." After 2 hours of talking to her son and telling him about the dreams she had for him, Mrs. Ogg saw Jamie take a gasping breath! Even the doctor admitted "this is a miracle" (see the full story at http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/38988444 ). This doctor had assumed there was no life but Mrs. Ogg kept behaving as if there was hope despite the fact that she had been told otherwise.
We never know what the Lord has planned and His plan ALWAYS goes against what seems logical to the world because this world is fallen and Satan's vultures are alive and present. BUT they have not won and Christ died on a cross to redeem this fallen world. We know how the story ends--Christ will return and life will be as He intended. Until then, shouldn't it be my focus as a disciple to never assume life is gone--we need to ROCK the vultures and confidently approach the dead, knowing that life may still exist.
As I was driving "my" kiddos home the other day we turned onto their street and there on the corner was a vulture rooting around for something to eat. However, as my car made the turn, the vulture at first seemed unsure of where to go and then quickly shuffled across the street to get away from the car. I just sort of chuckled because ironically, he was a bit uneasy about being so close to a moving car--the same moving car that had flown past his friends at much higher speed just days earlier. The difference: he had nothing o devour at the moment. Well, what if we I never gave them anything to devour? What if, each time someone behaves in an unlovable way, I love them anyway? What if I boldly "drive up" to those who appear to have no life left and confidently share what Christ can do for them? What if I NEVER give up on those that appear lifeless?
The result: Satan and his evil vultures are going to work hard to stop me but in the process, I will most assuredly grow closer to the God who loves me and provides new mercies every day! Much easier said than done but as Luke so elloquently stated: With God, nothing shall be impossible!
See, vultures devour the dead and are not scared off by passersby. They focus on taking what they want from the dead and bank on the fact that no one is going to come verify that the life is gone from the dead.
How often do I look at non-believing friends, family and strangers and think "they're hopeless, nothing can help them now." Satan's vultures have them ensnared in something that I think is too big and simply unfixable! But if I believe that Luke 1:37 (With God, nothing shall be impossible.) then WHAT AM I DOING?!?! Simply because someone looks dead, looks like they don't have the Lord, looks like they are so deep in sin that they can't get out--does this mean the Lord can't give them the same LIFE he gave to me!?!?
I was watching the Today Show recently and they told the story of Jamie Ogg who, along with his twin sister Emily, were delivered at 27 weeks. Doctors told his parents that he was dead and presented the baby to mom to say goodbye. She placed the baby on her bare chest and despite noticeable movements, the doctor continued to tell them this was reflex and part of the "process." After 2 hours of talking to her son and telling him about the dreams she had for him, Mrs. Ogg saw Jamie take a gasping breath! Even the doctor admitted "this is a miracle" (see the full story at http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/38988444 ). This doctor had assumed there was no life but Mrs. Ogg kept behaving as if there was hope despite the fact that she had been told otherwise.
We never know what the Lord has planned and His plan ALWAYS goes against what seems logical to the world because this world is fallen and Satan's vultures are alive and present. BUT they have not won and Christ died on a cross to redeem this fallen world. We know how the story ends--Christ will return and life will be as He intended. Until then, shouldn't it be my focus as a disciple to never assume life is gone--we need to ROCK the vultures and confidently approach the dead, knowing that life may still exist.
As I was driving "my" kiddos home the other day we turned onto their street and there on the corner was a vulture rooting around for something to eat. However, as my car made the turn, the vulture at first seemed unsure of where to go and then quickly shuffled across the street to get away from the car. I just sort of chuckled because ironically, he was a bit uneasy about being so close to a moving car--the same moving car that had flown past his friends at much higher speed just days earlier. The difference: he had nothing o devour at the moment. Well, what if we I never gave them anything to devour? What if, each time someone behaves in an unlovable way, I love them anyway? What if I boldly "drive up" to those who appear to have no life left and confidently share what Christ can do for them? What if I NEVER give up on those that appear lifeless?
The result: Satan and his evil vultures are going to work hard to stop me but in the process, I will most assuredly grow closer to the God who loves me and provides new mercies every day! Much easier said than done but as Luke so elloquently stated: With God, nothing shall be impossible!
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